What is love?

The end of an unexpected beginning

By Nikita Then October 2, 2020 0 Comments

“Do you regret meeting certain people in life- especially the ones that broke your heart?” Love me, love me not… As much as I might seem very at peace and hold no resentment, I’m only human. We all do get upset, furious, and heartbroken but I’ve come to my realization that sometimes what hurts most…

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Just maybe.

By Nikita Then April 1, 2020 0 Comments

Written on 14th of July 2019 We have those moments in life where we think to ourselves “Perhaps he/she is the one for me”. The one we want to spend our whole life with. That’s it. No more searching for the perfect guy/girl, no more swiping on tinder, no more going out to clubs or…

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The letter that was NEVER sent.

By Nikita Then February 22, 2019 0 Comments

Dear Mr. There are so many things in my mind and heart for a long time that I’ve been wanting to tell you. I remember very clearly on the first day before meeting you, I questioned so much about love. “What is love?” “How does real love is?” “ What is like to be love?”…

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Have we truly “Moved On”?

By Nikita Then February 17, 2019 0 Comments

Someone asked me a question the other day. “How do you moved on and forget someone?” Honestly, I don’t think we can ever truly forget or move on from someone especially if we have a deep emotional connection with them; they hold such special place in our heart. There’s a video by Jim Kwik- “How…

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What is love? pt 2

By Nikita Then February 15, 2019 0 Comments

I remember clearly asking the exact question just a year ago -2018. A year later, I still find myself asking the same question. I guess we can’t really fully explain what or how love should be. For each of us experience love differently. Love is a feeling too; it changes with each experience & every…

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Should I STAY or MOVE ON with someone new?

By Nikita Then October 31, 2018 0 Comments

“Nikita, would you stay on waiting for the one person whom you love despite not knowing if he loves you back or feels the same?” Honestly, I think answering that question is tougher than my exams.I had a long silent moment when a friend of mine questioned me.He looked at me waiting for my reply…

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What is love?

By Nikita Then February 14, 2018 3 Comments

“What is love to you?” My aunt questioned me. I was blank. I couldn’t think of anything. My mind was in total silence. What is love to me? I silently question myself again.I’ve written a post about how I feel about love previously but here I am sitting down on my bed, thinking to myself.…

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家Jīa – Home

By Nikita Then December 19, 2017 0 Comments

家 家 jiā is one of the most well-known Chinese characters. It’s basic meaning “home, family” is an important element in rich Chinese culture. Today, 家 is widely used to form other words with various meanings, its original use to indicate home or family is still fundamental. Before reading this post of mine, I would…

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The Lost Art

By Nikita Then October 22, 2017 0 Comments

It’s beautiful how our world is constantly evolving. From burning wood to make smoke messages to written hand letters to asking “Siri” to type our messages. It’s magnificent how technology could bring one closer to another. Just in seconds, both are connected from different parts of the world. Yet within seconds, it could tear both…

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Finding LOVE!

By Nikita Then September 25, 2017 0 Comments

I’m a hopelessly romantic person. Perhaps it could be the fairytale books I’ve been reading since growing up. I’ve always had this thought and perception of how love is supposed to be like. Have you ever readcinderella or sleeping beauty? A girl struggling with whatever “life has throw to her” & prince charming come to…

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